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Dear Splat,
I really like this guy, but he likes my best friend. He wants me to set him up with her but I don't really want to. What should I do?
- Fluffy Tomato
Dear Fluffy Tomato
This situation can be incredibly difficult for anyone. In this case, honesty is the best policy. You need to be honest with your friend so that she knows that you like this boy. Also, you need to tell her that he likes her because withholding information from her is not a good idea. It seems to me that this boy isn't even serious about her because he won't even ask her out himself. Think about that: Would you want to be in a relationship with a boy that didn't ask you out himself? If your best friend truly cares about you and you stress the points I have brought up, she will probably not commit to this guy. You can tell the guy you like him if you want to, but it is not necessary. Work things out with your friend and if she still goes out with this boy you may need to evaluate your friend's values.
Love,
Splat
I really like this guy, but he likes my best friend. He wants me to set him up with her but I don't really want to. What should I do?
- Fluffy Tomato
Dear Fluffy Tomato
This situation can be incredibly difficult for anyone. In this case, honesty is the best policy. You need to be honest with your friend so that she knows that you like this boy. Also, you need to tell her that he likes her because withholding information from her is not a good idea. It seems to me that this boy isn't even serious about her because he won't even ask her out himself. Think about that: Would you want to be in a relationship with a boy that didn't ask you out himself? If your best friend truly cares about you and you stress the points I have brought up, she will probably not commit to this guy. You can tell the guy you like him if you want to, but it is not necessary. Work things out with your friend and if she still goes out with this boy you may need to evaluate your friend's values.
Love,
Splat
Dear Splat,There's this guy I REALLY like, but I'm too afraid to tell him. I'm scared it might ruin our friendship.
-OMG Loops
Dear OMG Loops,
This is a problem for a lot of girls. It is incredibly easy to fall for our friends because our friends are chosen based on personality. At this age boys will come in and out of your life. Right now you should be more concerned with a friendship. If you want you can talk to him about how you feel or confide in a best friend. However, don't let yourself fall even more because at this age friendship is more important than anything. Friends are forever, just wait until you are older to deal with boys.
Love,
Splat
-OMG Loops
Dear OMG Loops,
This is a problem for a lot of girls. It is incredibly easy to fall for our friends because our friends are chosen based on personality. At this age boys will come in and out of your life. Right now you should be more concerned with a friendship. If you want you can talk to him about how you feel or confide in a best friend. However, don't let yourself fall even more because at this age friendship is more important than anything. Friends are forever, just wait until you are older to deal with boys.
Love,
Splat